Connecting Point: The High Mark

There are many character traits we can aim for in life. Some happen to be wholesome, while others tend to be unhealthy. One virtue that stands above so many others is faithfulness. A person whose character is marked by faithfulness in multiple areas of life traditionally is deeply admired. Therefore, each of us can strive for such a high mark, like an Olympian pole vaulter continually aiming for higher goals. I believe most people wish to be a better person.

Still, biblically speaking, the goal of being a “good” person is misguided. Good is quite subjective. A better understanding is found in growing in Christ-like virtues. We all are flawed, that is why we depend on the Holy Spirit daily to shape us. The word faithful (Greek is Pistos) means to be reliable, trustworthy, dependable, devoted, unswerving, and constant.

Who really wants to be known as a slacker? Very few. But, rather than ranting and raving about slothfulness in our society, we could all do our part in practicing faithfulness. Brow-beating seldom helps. Equally of little value is just going along to go along.

Proverbs 28:20 says, “A faithful man will abound with blessings.”

The following areas of our life are important to build upon: spiritual faithfulness, relational faithfulness and financial faithfulness.

First, spiritual faithfulness is vital for any Christian. If we are slothful in spiritual matters our faith wanes, we can slip back in to sinful patterns of the former life.

Faithfulness in our relationships fosters a blessed life. Devotion to one’s spouse sets an example for children and others while it draws a husband and wife closer together. Being actively present for your children builds a strong foundation for their development. Faithfulness in the church community helps us to fulfill our mission and purpose.

Lastly, we are all entrusted with money. The greater we honestly manage money, the more freedom we earn. Jesus described this in a parable and spoke of a greater reward, “‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness,’” (Matthew 25:21).

Faithfulness in money, faithfulness in relations, and faithfulness with our heart. Christianity has been a pretty good reminder of a life of contentment. Aiming for greater high marks should be an ongoing goal for each of us.

Mother Teresa said, “God demands not that I be successful, but that I be faithful.” I agree with her sentiment as she was truly someone to admire.