Dear Jo: 9/22/2021

Dear Jo,

What do you do when your spouse comes home after 30 year of marriage and simply does not want to be married anymore?! No reason, no big problem, no affair. How does a person come to terms with this?!

Signed,

Pissed off and confused

Dear Pissed and Confused,

There is no way but forward. Move that direction and don’t stop. You cannot change a mind that is made up. You are meant for greater things. Let that $#!% go and run for your future. You will be ok. It will take a bit, but you’ve got this.

Signed, Jo

Dear Jo,

I want to start a line dancing class. I am no perfect dancer, but I got rhythm. I feel like it may be a great way for people to get out and do something new. I love to dance and figure I can change moves based on peoples level of fitness and ability. The problem is that I am scared of not getting a good response. I am bit chubby, maybe that has something to do with it. Why do I hesitate to do something out of fear of failure?

Signed, Itching to dance

Dear Itching,

Quit that bull right now and get your boots on! You cannot succeed at anything if you operate out of fear. Haven’t you heard, skinny is not the hot body any longer. You embrace your beautiful self and get those boogie feet moving. I guarantee people will join!

Signed, Jo